Brenda Neckvatal
Overview:
This training isn't a theory dump. It's a straight-to-the-point, battle-tested system for handling the most destructive force in any organization - the toxic employee who knows exactly how to work around unclear standards, vague documentation, and slow-moving policies.
We start where most leaders fail: defining and articulating behavior in a way that is observable, measurable, and tied directly to your company's standards of behavior or code of ethics. If you can't clearly connect behavior to a defined expectation, you'll never make it stick in documentation or discipline.
From there, you'll learn why the most effective leaders have the conversation before they start the paperwork. We'll cover the real-time language that stops toxic patterns before they spread, keeps accountability professional, and forces clarity without creating legal risk.
We'll dismantle the dangerous habit of hiding behind policy. Policies don't lead - leaders do. You'll discover how to turn the cold, technical language of a policy into a leadership stance that reinforces authority, earns respect, and sets the tone for every future interaction.
You'll confront the truth that waiting to act only makes the situation worse. Delayed discipline doesn't de-escalate problems - it cements them into your culture. We'll map exactly how toxic behavior escalates in weeks, not months, and give you a playbook for interrupting it before it becomes your team's new normal.
Then we go beyond the conversation and into the written record - teaching you how to create documentation that is clear, factual, and bulletproof. You'll see real employee discipline examples, weak vs. strong documentation side-by-side, and how to avoid the vague, emotional, or accusatory language that gets leaders in trouble.
We'll also cover the nuts and bolts of managing and tracking employee performance, including the stark differences between what large corporations do vs. small companies, and the hidden risks each faces. You'll leave knowing how to build a simple, defensible tracking system that works in your world.
Finally, you'll walk through a disciplinary form and a performance improvement plan (PIP) using real case scenarios. You'll learn why a PIP isn't always your best first move - especially with an employee who's manipulating the process - and how to choose the right approach without exposing yourself or your company.
By the end of this training, you'll have the clarity, tools, and confidence to confront toxic behavior early, lead the documentation process with authority, and protect both your team and your credibility.
You're not here to get good at avoiding conflict. You're here to get unshakable at leading through it.
Why you should Attend:
If you've ever had to document a toxic employee, you know the stakes:
This session strips away the guesswork and puts you back in control. You'll learn exactly how to:
Manage and track performance in a way that works for both large corporate systems and small-company realities.
Areas Covered in the Session:
Who Will Benefit:
Brenda Neckvatal is a three-time bestselling author, an award-winning Human Results professional, and a serial entrepreneur who has been featured in publications such as Forbes, Entrepreneur, Fast Company, Inc., and US News and World Reports. Perseverance, integrity, and relentless optimism are just a few of the ingredients you experience when meeting and working with Brenda.
Not only does she help business leaders tackle their toughest people challenges, but she is also a recognized expert in crisis management and group dynamics. As a trusted mentor to leaders and managers at all levels, she equips them with the skills to navigate complex interpersonal issues, resolve conflicts, and lead with confidence. By mastering these skills, they can lead their teams into tomorrow’s rapidly evolving business landscape with resilience, clarity, and purpose.
She really enjoys helping people solve their unique problems, and human resources offered her the ability to support her co-workers in a greater capacity. Having the benefit of working for a total of six Fortune 500 companies, she converted her experience into advising her audience to use tried and trusted best practices that help leaders achieve their workforce goals.
In her 30-year career in human resources and business, she has consulted to over 700 small businesses and 1,000 leaders. She has optimized employee effectiveness and helped leaders develop high-performing teams and navigate intense employment-related decisions.
Brenda is a devoted volunteer in the Navy SEAL Community and is constantly finding new ways of supporting veterans of Naval Special Warfare. She dedicates 32 weeks a year to working with The Honor Foundation to support the career transition of Special Forces personnel by providing them with her knowledge, insight, and creativity.